“Don’t tell me what you’re going to do, tell me what you’ve done.”

I love this saying. I consider myself a person of action – a doer, not just a talker. Yesterday marked 10 months to the day that I started my extended trips to LA to get whataretheywearing up & running. Last month marked a year from when I first formally put this bold life-changing plan into motion. And if all goes well, this Monday, March 8^th will mark the much-anticipated soft launch of the site. T minus four days & counting. Not to mention it’s also the return of new Gossip Girl episodes & Oscar Boxing Day. An exciting day I don’t mind sharing.

There are a few more t’s to be crossed and i’s to be dotted in the next few days, so in the interest of no more over-promising and under-delivering, I won’t say that Monday is set in stone. But things are looking good. Finally. It’s been a long long road together…

For anyone interested in a preview, this is essentially what's going live:

WHAT ARE THEY WEARING

I'll be starting daily posts next week. And although I’d give the site a 7 overall in my own unrelenting perfectionist ranking, there are more development projects in the works to make it a 10. She's getting there.

If you do have a chance to check out the staging site in the next few days – any & ALL feedback is welcome. Thank you to those of you who have already been a great help so far. It’s much appreciated. Every bit helps.

Ready!

k

Lesson Learned

A few days after returning to LA from the Christmas holidays, I picked up a friend (and fellow Canadian) from LAX. Her flight got in ~ 10pm. I’ve done the drive to and from the airport MANY times. I have a quick route I usually take, but with all of the excitement of her and her dog (Thumps), I missed a turn and we took the freeway. Not a big deal, it’d be quick at that hour. We were catching up, I was driving – navigating our way home – when all of a sudden my worst fear in LA (aside from being deported!) came true. There were red flashing lights behind me…

There are few things I fear more in life than the police in countries outside of Canada. In Canada, men in dark blue make me feel safe & protected. Anywhere else, they do just the opposite. This might be less surprising in developing nations like African countries – but the US is also high on this list. Blame Rodney King, Crash & Changeling, but I am petrified of the LAPD. They have a lot of power, & I just don’t like it.

In disbelief, I said “Are we getting pulled over?” My friend laughed and said, “What? No!” Well, yes we were. My surprise lead to a delayed reaction time, so the officer actually got on the loud speaker, “Take the next exit and pull over. Pull over at Culver City.” So I did, but I guess I didn’t stop soon enough because then I heard, “Stop the car, pull over and stop the car NOW.” Uh, ok. I’d never been pulled over in my life, let alone on a 6-lane Los Angeles freeway. Awesome. I stopped the car.

The officer was nice enough, he said I’d made an unsafe lane change and cut someone off. I didn’t notice, but I wasn’t one to object. He did a test asking me to follow his finger with my eyes (I had to stop myself from saying anything, clearly I hadn’t had a drop of any alcohol, but he wasn’t asking). Then he went back to his patrol car, for what felt like forever, and came back with a ticket telling me I had to go to the Santa Monica Courthouse February 22, at 8:30am. So I did this past Monday. I waited in line for two hours (in a full suit, not required to say the least) and decided not to contest the ticket. That would have involved coming back another day, going in front of a judge, and proving that I didn’t make an unsafe lane change. I wasn’t sure how to go about doing that, so instead I paid the $215 fine and opted to take online traffic school for another $60. I have until mid-April to complete an 8-hour online course, after which this incident will be completely removed from my driving record. No points, no insurance penalties, no record... Yes please. I had never even heard of traffic school, the man at the kiosk kept asking me if I’d been to traffic school in the past 18-months. I had to ask what traffic school was, his reply was “I think you’re good.”

I've since learned that it’s very common to get pulled over in smaller LA areas like Culver City. Large enough to have it’s own police force, but relatively small geographically, there’s no shortage of police looking to pull people over. I guess the key is not to give them a reason.

So yeah, drive safe and check those blind spots.

k

Olympic Pride

There’s nothing better than seeing Canada in the spotlight. And as expected, Vancouver’s proving to be a fantastic host for the 2010 Olympic Winter Games. From KD Lang's show-stopping performance of "Hallelujah" in last Friday's Opening Ceremonies - to the electric energy of the Canadian fans cheering on our hometown favorites - I'm completely addicted to anything, everything, & ALL things Olympic.

Some personal highlights so far are the following – of course the celebs & fashions are front & center in my book:

• Wayne Gretzky (The Great One), Steve Nash (NBA allstar), Catriona Le May Doan (speed skating icon) & Nancy Greene (skiing legend) lighting the Olympic Cauldron.

• “You Gotta Be here” - commercial airing throughout the Olympic coverage encouraging traveling to BC in 2010 – proud Canadian British Columbians Michael J Fox (amidst some of Canada’s biggest & best trees), Sarah McLachlan (donning black Hunter Wellies & admist orca whales), Ryan Reynolds (“laid back”… mmm - always delicious), Erick McCormack, Steve Nash, & Sex and the City's Kim Cattrall. “We call it home, my home, our home." Click for the TV & Unedited versions. So worth a watch.

• “We Are The World 25 for Haiti” (click to watch) - 25 years ago Michael Jackson cowrote this song with Lionel Richie to raise money for Africa. Today, several A-list stars gathered for a remake with proceeds going to Haiti earthquake relief – available on iTunes (you can also download “Hope for Haiti” songs from George Clooney’s telethon).

• Canada’s first gold on home soil – Alexandre Bilodeau (above) – Men’s Moguls Freestyle Skiing - AMAZING.

• Canada’s first women’s snowboarding gold (& the first Canadian Women to earn a gold on home soil!!) - Maellle Ricker (local West Vancouver girl) – Ladies Snowboard Cross. I physically leapt out of my seat for that one.

• Other gold, silver and bronze Canadian medals have been earned in Speed Skating, Men’s Snowboard Cross & Moguls Freestyle Skiing. The medal count continues... loving metallics.

• US figure skater Evan Lysacek (Los Angelean) debuting his feathered costume in his short program, designed by Vera Wang, fashion icon & former figure skater herself. His second Vera outfit can be seen in tonight’s long program. You go boy.

• Evan’s US teammate Johnny Weir marching proudly into the figure skating arena with a black studded Balenciaga bag – ok, it was a full on purse. Ever the fashionista, his costume had pink accents as well. Go big - go gold - or go pink.

• US downhill skier, Lindsey Vonn, overcoming a devastating shin injury, to take gold. Teammate Julia Mancusco, wearing a tiara over her helmet as a good luck charm, takes silver. No joke. Look closely...

• Shaun White taking a victory lap (after winning gold in his first run) & introducing his double McTwist 1260. This Big Bear California native is called “the flying tomato”. He proudly defended his gold from Torino, & was incredible to watch.

Thankfully we still have more than another week of the games to enjoy – I just can’t get enough.

GO CANADA!!!!

k

It's going to be a white Christmas...

Antarctica will mark my 7^th and final continent, a goal I have to complete by my 30^th birthday. Funnily enough this endeavor wasn’t as well researched on my part as my previous expeditions to Africa, South America & Everest (or at all really). I know a few brave souls who have ventured to the Arctic, and we’ve discussed it in passing, but I failed to start properly researching this expedition until last month. I had it in my head that I’d head to the South Pole this spring – figuring once the site was launched I could get my act in order and take a 10-day hiatus…

Hmmm. Well for one – I learned the continent freezes in March every year – not thawing until the following December. This posed my first problem for my finite August deadline. So likely not surprisingly to most of you, I started looking into the trips that were still available this season in an effort to meet my cut-off. My travel agent even asked if I could leave for 3 weeks in 4 days from our first conversation? Aggressive. Given the site's delay, and my insane thirst for continent chasing, I probably could have swung it... but the trips left were not my ideal. I want an active trip, on a comfortable ship, with other travelers close to my age - far from what was left. I was now seeing why most people plan this trip of a lifetime about a year in advance. It’s a sizable

investment to undertake without getting the trip you really want (I’m set on sea kayaking with penguins - circa March of the Penguins 2.0 - and I’m really not willing to compromise on this...). I also thought I could do a 7-day trip, adding a day or two for travel on each end. But considering you’re going to the tip of the world – they don’t run trips less than 10 days in length. You also need to give yourself 2-3 days on each end to properly accommodate the required travel (after missing my flight from LA to Singapore & starting Everest two days late, I can appreciate why this is the case) - I'm not sure a ship with 100 passengers would be waiting...

So in the end I’ve booked my perfect trip (this is my actual ship below) & I've allowed myself a few months grace on my August deadline. I’ll be leaving LA December 15^th, flying to Ushuaia

(the Southern most city in the world) via Buenos Aries – leaving December 18^th on a 12-day expedition – and returning home to LA via Santiago (happily ringing in 2011). My trip is called the “Antarctica Cruise – The Peninsula (Active Adventure) 2010” – it’s on a Russian Ship called the “Marina Svetaeva” and aside from sea kayaking with penguins; it offers glacier camping, healthy meals, a gym, and hot stone massage. There are day hikes and zodiac rides. It’s described as “a casual & active environment”. Perfection.

If I don’t include countries where I haven’t actually left the airport (Japan & South Korea), I’m at 25 for my related goal of 30 countries also before 30. I’ll count Argentina and Chile as 26 & 27 – leaving 3 more to hit in the next few months. Cabo anyone?

Seven!

k

Team Canada

As much as I LOVE living in California and consider it my forever home (Muskoka will ALWAYS have dibs on my summers) – I could not be more excited for the Olympics to start in my native country. And of course, to ferociously cheer on Team Canada. Always. I can’t wait to experience the balance of watching the US media coverage – with Canada being the host. Vancouver is one of our best cities, and will surely have Canadians beaming with pride, as the rest of the world (the few that don’t already love and respect our country), falls head over heels with everything British Columbia has to

offer. Isn’t it about time Americans learn what a toque is? Not to mention an “Inukshuk” – I can’t wait to watch the world try to figure out that one... And if the city of Vancouver isn’t spectacular enough – there’s Whistler. I’ve been lucky enough to visit Whistler in the summer - enjoying their running & biking trails, and in the winter – enjoying fresh tracks & the best boarding of my life. It’s incredible. Such a small town it feels like high school - there’s a homey feel to it that welcomes you right away. Admittedly it’s not somewhere I’d want to spend more than a few days at a time, but whatever your reason to visit – it promises to offer you an incredible few days at that.

So as the torch continues to cross the country en route to Whistler (the 106 day relay has passed through every province & territory, with torchbearers including teenagers, senior citizens, athletes & politicians), tomorrow marks one week till the Opening Ceremonies in Vancouver. Athletes from across the globe are gearing up for their competitions of a lifetime. It promises to be an exciting 17 days, hopefully resulting in many Canadians taking gold on their homeland.

The last year of my life (& admittedly the 28 before) comes back to one question – what are they wearing? This applies to athletics – so to answer anyone else’s beaming curiosity, the US team will be donned in Ralph Lauren attire for the Opening Ceremonies. Sadly Team Canada’s HBC gear’s not looking as chic – gaining points for function over fashion it's cozy & comfy - which might help in the medal department.

It’s too bad lulu wasn’t honored with the task – being one of Canada’s largest retail success stories – starting nowhere other than… Vancouver. At least we’ve got their “cheer gear”. LOVE.

It’s on.

k

Rumor has it...

I’ll have a website soon.

After MUCH delay, my developers are working out some (hopefully) final bugs and we’re actually getting close to a launch. There have been more than a few bugs, changes, revisions, etc. over the last three months, but they’ve really stepped up recently and we’re finally getting somewhere. In a matter of a week or so, I hope to be sending out the final stage version to some of you lucky readers and strong supporters (get excited!) asking for some last thoughts, after which we’ll go live...

To answer my beloved friend and family’s number question of the last seven months, I still don’t have a specific launch date. I’ve made the mistake of committing to a date too many times now – let’s all remember the first “coming soon - July 2009" placeholder, which has since been changed to “Fall 20009”, “Winter 2009” and finally “Winter 2010”. There’s nothing worse than over-promising and under-delivering – it’s my biggest pet peeve in life, so it’s been a tough pill to swallow that we missed our July deadline, and every month thereafter until what’s now looking like February 2010. That'll mark nine months since I've been working hard, and hardly working on the site - and with all of the time, money, and sleepless nights - she's definitely my baby.

I appeased myself by starting a facebook WHAT ARE THEY WEARING fan page (linked to our twitter whatRtheyWear and WHAT ARE THEY WEARING Linkedin groups) last fall. Thank you, thank you, thank you to all of you 178 fans so far.

It’s not that the site involves some form of rocket science, or is highly complex - (although I do think she is starting to look gorgeous) – but it’s common for web development to take what feels like forever. And I can't say I've been perfect in the process - I've learned A TON about things I didn't know existed. But everything happens for a reason right? Let's hope she’s worth the wait.

Stay tuned…

k

"If you want a rainbow...

... you have to put up with the rain." - Dolly Parton.

Yes, it rains in LA. Actually, I should say it RAINS. Right now California is RAINING. LA’s been hit with hard rain since Sunday of this past Martin Luther King long weekend - and it’s predicted to stay strong until Friday. Day 4 and counting… 3 to go!

Growing up in Canada, I’m used to the elements. I’ll admit to becoming fair-weathered temperature-wise since moving to Southern California, but rain and snow still don’t phase me. Living in San Francisco, I couldn’t believe how the state shut down with a bit of rain. People forget how to drive (those who knew how to begin with) – and everything slows right down. If something takes you 15 minutes when it’s dry, it’ll take an hour with California rain. I’m lucky to have my trusty SUV with all-wheel drive, so gratefully I feel just as safe in wet conditions as dry. But it wasn’t until yesterday that I took the rain here seriously… things shut down because as a usually DRY place, California is ill-equipped to handle abnormal amounts of rain – which is anything more than a light drizzle. The mudslides (winter’s answer to summer’s fires) are as dangerous as avalanches, not to mention the floods, and most recently a tornado hitting Long / Huntington Beach and Orange County so strong it flipped cars and threw boats in the arena 30-50 feet in the air. Not just another day in paradise.

There were small breaks of sunshine Monday and yesterday afternoons – my friend and I actually saw a rainbow in the Hollywood Hills as we walked threw knee-deep puddles. But a flood warning remains in effect for Southern California, freeways have been shut down, and after an appearance of hail late this morning, this afternoon we’re gearing up for more heavy rain (up to 1.5 inches per hour) and high winds (50 -60 miles per hour). It’s advised not to leave your home if you don’t have to – OK, home office!

We might be prepared for earthquakes (some of us more than others - I promise to FINALLY buy my “earthquake kit” this weekend) – but this amount of fog, wind and rain can in fact be DISASTROUS and isn’t to be taken lightly. It’s a good thing I have three pairs of Wellies.

Stay dry!

k

Martin Luther King Monday

There are a few things American’s have right – a long weekend in January is DEFINITELY one of them. This weekend marks the first US holiday weekend of 2010. It’s excitingly followed by "President’s Day" next month (oddly "Family Day" hasn’t come south of the border). My best friend interestingly pointed out that January is when a new President's inauguration happens, and February is “Black History Month” – yet "Martin Luther King Day" is in January, and "President’s Day" is in February. Hmmm. Like I said – they have a few things right.

In honor of Dr. King’s memory, I’ve included a link below to a 17-minute video of his “I have a dream” speech. It's worth a watch.

http://www.mlkonline.net/video-i-have-a-dream-speech.html

I wonder if he ever dreamt of having a black President... "Free at last!"

What’s your dream?

k

So Type A…

I recently became obsessed with finding out my blood type. Mostly because I didn’t know it and I think this is a VERY important piece of valuable information for everyone to have, but also because a month into my vegan-macrobiotic transition, things aren’t going so smoothly. I haven’t had any animal products or byproducts for four weeks, and my body doesn’t seem to be reacting very well to this significant change. A few wise people asked about my blood type, explaining that some types need animal protein more than others. So I set to find out. My Toronto doctor said she couldn’t run the test unless I was pregnant (no!!) or needed a blood transfusion, but I could find out by giving blood. So I tried to donate blood in Toronto the next day, only to find out you can't within 24 hours of a dental cleaning. That ruled me out as I’d just seen my dentist. Back in LA, I contacted the UCLA platelet centre and after passing the initial prescreening, set up an appointment to donate. Unfortunately after explaining to a young technician that Nepal is a country, and Mount Everest is in fact a Mountain – I was denied as a donor until January 2011, because Nepal has a high risk for malaria. Explaining the elevation of Everest didn’t help, but at that point I wasn’t sure I wanted her putting a needle anywhere near me. I then ordered an online typing kit and put my grade 11 Biology skills to work, only to get an inconclusive result. Awesome. My last resort was to see my LA doctor, who happily did the typing test right in her office (sorry but I love US healthcare). Two days later she called me to let me know I’m Type A (negative). Classic.

Anyone who knows me, or who has read this blog, likely knows I’m a typical type A. It’s a funny coincidence that this now has more than one meaning for me. Not surprisingly, the A blood types are described as having fragile digestive systems – again anyone who knows me, knows this is an understatement, primarily thanks to my fantastic global travels (worth it!). It’s actually recommended that I have a vegetarian diet – but in adopting a “Eat Right for Your Type” diet, there are all kinds of other things it suggests I eliminate. A negative is a rare type outside of Africans (which works out well for me as I’ve always wanted to be African) – and is only prominent in about 7% of Canadians.

Dare to be different right?!

k

Happy New YOU!

I stole that from a Kellogg’s Special K ad I saw in Melbourne last January and I kind of love it. There’s something magical about this time of year. I’m not nearly as into Christmas and the December festivities as I am birthdays (thankfully those come every day) – for the most part I could take or leave the holidays. But I do love starting a new year. It’s a cleansing and refreshing feeling. A fresh start. A blank slate. I love making resolutions, setting goals, and well certainly adopting a few changes – 2009 was definitely one for the books in that respect.

Last year on December 21^st, 2008 – I flew from Toronto to LA en route to Singapore, and eventually Nepal and (finally) Mount Everest. This year on December 21^st, 2009 – I flew from LA to Toronto to spend 6 days with East Coast friends and family. Last year on December 31^st, 2009 – I spent New Year’s Eve with my Nepalese guide and sherpa, neither of whom I’d known for more than a week – as well as couple of other trekkers I met that day. This year on December 31^st, 2009 – I spent New Year’s Eve with new LA friends I met this fall. Last year on January 1^st, 2009 – I trekked to Base Camp, and Kala Patthar - an excess of 20,000 ft. It was minus 40 degrees celsius without the wind chill. I woke up on New Year’s day (at 5am) to a frozen hot water bottle in my sleeping bag. This year on January 1^st, 2009 - I hiked Runyon Canyon – maybe 2,000 ft above sea level at its highest peak. I woke up (at 10am) to 20 degrees celsius and my warm bed. What a difference a year makes. From one extreme to the other, one thing remains the same – it’s a new year!!

Happy 2010. Make it your best year yet.

k

"Life isn't about finding yourself, life is about creating yourself." - Unknown